Three years ago, Neil Carruthers married Tina Nedelcu;
despite the horrible realization that soon after wedding bells and cheer, there
very well might be organ chords signifying a funeral and despair. Tina had already been treated for brain
cancer and successfully learned how to talk and walk again.
Not everyone would get married during a time of
adversity, such as a serious illness, but Neil was determined on love, no
matter what. He explained to his mother,
Rosanne, “‘Mom, you don’t marry someone for their pedigree and you don’t marry
them for their health history,’” she recalled.
“He told me, ‘Mom, whatever time we have, I want to spend with her.’”
That time turned out to be extremely short, as Tina’s
cancer returned just 9 months later in 2010.
Neil and Tina moved in with Neil’s parents in Stoneham, M.A., and he
quit his job in order to be there for Tina around the clock. When Tina lost her ability to speak, Neil
remained loyal at her bedside. He read
her scriptures from the bible.
“I know he was helping to prepare her,” Rosanne said,
“but for me as a mother, as a Christian, it was as if she was preparing him as
well.”
Tragically on Aug. 11, Neil walked out of Tina’s room and
collapsed suddenly thereafter. His
mother Rosanne, who is a nurse at Winchester Hospital, performed CPR. Two hours of medical attention could not revive
Neil. It eventually came out that a few
days before his death; Neil had received a physical, where his doctor saw
nothing to be alarmed about.
Sadly, Rosanne had to break the news to her
daughter-in-law Tina that something terrible had happened to their beloved
Neil, “and I know she understood. When I
came home, I went in and I held her hand and I told her, ‘Tina, he didn’t make
it, he’s going to have to be there waiting for you,’ and tears ran right down
her cheeks.”
Tina died in hospice care, forty-six hours later. The couple died young as she was 29, and he
was 34. A joint funeral will be held for
the newly-weds in Stoneham on Saturday.
Source: All Christian News
Puts the "till death do us part" thing in perspective. I think this guy willed it upon himself, he wanted to die. May God rest their souls
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