1. Don’t Lie
The biggest mistakes made by people in love are lying to
each other, especially at the beginning of the relationship. Lies always come
out to the surface, they kill trust and, eventually, vanish respect and love.
2. Say ‘I’m Sorry’
One of the main rules for a happy relationship is to say
you’re sorry. Don’t focus on who’s right or wrong, you’re not competitors, you
play on the same team. Learn to let go!
3. Don’t Complain
Be positive and don’t complain about everything in your
life. If you must free your soul, talk to a friend. If you need change in your
relationship, ask for solutions, not mercy.
4. Communicate
When you don’t know what your lover is thinking, just
ask. Make sure all the communication channels stay open, otherwise you can both
drown in your own silence.
5. Eat and Exercise Like You Were Single
Don’t take your partner’s love for granted. Take care of
the way you look and feel, he’ll always be attracted to you, and you’ll be
confident enough not to be jealous or frustrated.
6. Be Adventurous
Boredom is not among the things a good relationship
needs. Learn a new language together, plan a trip, change restaurants, make
love in crazy places or just do something different every day.
7. Fight Politely
Fights are constructive for a good relationship because
they take out frustration and stimulate solution seeking. When you argue with
your lover, remember to always be polite and respect him. No matter how angry
or proud you are, control your language and don’t hurt his feelings, especially
in public. He’ll love you for your kindness and elegance, especially if it is
shown during difficult times.
8. Make Time for Cuddling
You only need a few seconds to start your day with a
smile. Hug, kiss and caress your lover as often as you can, even if it doesn’t
lead to sex. This way, you are both “invaded” by oxytocin, the happy hormone,
that gives you the strong and happy relationship feeling.
9.Offer
If you want to receive, first offer! There is no spare
place for selfishness in a good relationship, so always be willing to give,
without asking nothing in return.
10.Never Stop Dating
No matter how long you live together, never stop dating.
The best signs of a happy relationship are those special moments spent
together, in intimacy, eating at a fancy restaurant or taking a walk in the
park, just talking, laughing, holding hands and sharing feelings.
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by Laura Travis
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