Although it would be unfair to say all Players are essentially the
same in terms of traits and personality, anybody who labels themselves a
“ladies’ man” holds firm to a base set of ideals. Hence, there are
certain words that aren’t part of the Player’s vocabulary, and certain
sayings that will never escape his lips. If you’re a woman and you’re
asking yourself, “How can I spot a ‘Player?’” then you simply need to
listen for the following statements; if you ever hear any of them, your
guy doesn’t qualify. A successful pickup artist is typically endowed
with
the gift of gab, but thanks to time and experience, he carefully selects what
chitchat he
makes. To the receptive girl, it always sounds smooth and casual; never
forced and never strained, and capable of allowing most any woman to
relax in mere minutes. In short, Players are master conversationalists
but they’re also experts at controlling their own fate. Always remember:
Players would never say
anything to compromise those aforementioned ideals.
“I love you”
It’s a predictable No. 1, but all the critical women out there should realize that avoiding this heartfelt statement
saves you
a great deal of stress and pain. As the Player has no enemies — male or
female — and he frowns on manipulation and deception, he isn’t about to
toy with a woman’s heart just to satisfy his base desires. At no point
will a true ladies’ man say, “I love you.” While it does indeed stem
from a dislike of
commitment, these three little words only lead to trouble. A Player will
spare you
that. There may come a day when a pickup artist does say what every
woman wants to hear when they’re playing “wedding dress-up” as little
girls, but if so that means two things: 1) He means it; and 2) He has
voluntarily turned in his Player license. Only the cruel and evil say,
“I love you” to get what they want, and then go on their merry way.
